Sunday, May 29, 2011

A few Memorial Day photos

It was a long road trip to Baltimore. Yes, I'm grateful for the minivan and the newly-repaired DVD player (which we hardly used, actually). But I was less grateful for the pouring rain we experienced along almost the entire drive, turning our trip into a grueling 14.5 hours - we arrived at about 5 am, and the last three hours were by far the hardest.

It's great to be here with Uncle David, Aunt Gina, and cousin Isaac, though. Miles and Eleanor took to baby Isaac (aka "MY cousin" as per Eleanor) right away.



Charlie the cat took a little longer to warm up, and Elmer the mostly-labrador is still the terror of Nora's young life, causing shrieks of panic whenever he enters the room. Seriously, I don't remember ever being scared of dogs; how did fear develop?

Uncle David made Miles' day by finding him a helicopter to visit, at the Fort Mead museum.



We also climbed around on the tanks...





---until we noticed this sign. Oops!



Yesterday morning we went strawberry picking. The kids helped mostly by eating, but the adults managed to collect enough for a strawberry custard, strawberry pie, strawberry syrup, and who knows what else.






We also splashed around in David's tiny backyard pool. Here's my photogenic husband with the dripping kids:



David also took some family photos, which were unusual in that I looked pretty decent (as if I have a chin) in most of them, while the kids were both grouchy and glaring in most.


Sunday, May 8, 2011

Mother's Day...

...and I finally received the traditional pasta necklace! You know you're a real mom when your kids make you a necklace out of dyed penne, right?

And yes, I am being the good mom and WEARING the pasta necklaces. Today, at least.

Saturday, May 7, 2011

backhanded compliment

As I was leaving tonight for an audition, Eleanor says,

"Wow, you look really pretty, Mommy!"

Miles chimes in, "Yeah. Much better than before."

Thanks, kid.

Eleanor's butterfly birthday party

So I settled on a butterfly theme for Nora's 3rd birthday. We invited over six of her three- and almost-three-year-old girlfriends, played a couple games, made a craft, and ate snacks and cupcakes. It went off pretty well! I am convinced that for this age, a morning time slot and brief duration (less than 90 minutes) are key.

Here's Eleanor in her butterfly dress (which I made last fall, but she hadn't gotten to wear yet), matching beads on her braids, and the blingy necklace and bracelet I made her for her birthday (real pearls and Swarovski crystal, thank you very much!) Of course, after about five minutes, she got tired of them and whined until I took the necklace and bracelet off. Sigh. Oh well; maybe in a few months I can win her over.



The bracelet, complete with butterfly charm.



I also made matching name bracelets as party favors for all her little friends, rather than the usual goody bags full of candy and small things to lose or throw away.


As the girls arrived, we gave them each "butterfly antenna" headbands to wear. We played "pin (well, tape) the antenna on the butterfly" first. Butterfly poster courtesy of Scott!








Then we headed downstairs to make our craft: tissue paper flowers. I tried to pick something within a three-year-old's grasp, but I overestimated; it was beyond one of the parents, too! The girls liked the flowers, though their involvement basically extended to choosing the colors of tissue paper.

Our final activity was supposed to be a butterfly hunt (like an Easter Egg hunt ) but I couldn't find any tiny plastic butterflies, so instead we hunted for the butterfly's "friends" (snakes, lizards, frogs, and other bugs), which Scott hid around the upstairs during craft time.





For snack/lunch, we had fruit, "caterpillars in cocoons" (aka pigs in blankets, but I thought my renaming was fairly clever), and tiny finger sandwiches in the shapes of butterflies and flowers.

And of course, the piece de resistance: butterfly cupcakes!



I made eighteen of them, in pink and yellow. The wings and antenna are made out of chocolate and pastel melts, freehanded onto wax paper and then wedged into the frosting with some chocolate frosting for bodies. Pretty cute!


It was kind of hard to fit candles on, though!


All in all, a good party! And this afternoon, the whole family got naps, so a good day for all!

Friday, April 29, 2011

I have a sweet, sweet son

Today, during "rest time" (we've abolished naptime in favor of quiet in-room play now), Miles decided to write some letters, probably inspired by the Frog and Toad story, "The Letter".

Before dinner tonight, he proudly brought his efforts to me. He wrote one letter for Mom, one for Dad, and one for Miss "Lora".

Here's mine:


Transliteration:

DEAR MOM
IM GALD (glad) YOU
CARE ABUT (about)
ME ALL THE
TIME AND E-
VER (ever)

People, I am saving this one.

I'm also relatively impressed by his spelling, if not necessarily his four-year-old-boy manual dexterity.

Dad's and Laura's involve random crayon colors that don't photograph well, and I think he left some words out or mixed them up on Dad's (It says, "Dear Dad, Time you home come live (or lie?) down me I with love Dad.") I think this refers to looking forward to Scott coming home (he's out of town this week), and how they like to snuggle in Miles' bed when Scott reads to him at bedtime. It's a little convoluted, but obviously lovingly meant.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

a few Easter photos


The family on the porch, in our Easter finery. Scott is of the school of thought that a guy ought to wear a suit on Easter and Christmas, at least, and he's pulling Miles in his footsteps (although I've been far too cheap to actually buy Miles a suit yet). Who would've guessed that the guy I started dating in college - the one who owned one tie and whose "dressy" pants were the corduroy ones without holes - would turn out so dapper?

You can't tell, but I actually was wearing pantyhose, a skirt, and a modicum of makeup! A red letter day for sure.


Eleanor shows off the Easter dress I made her. It has a very fluffy skirt, which she likes, and a giant bow on the back, which annoys her. I am far from a brilliant seamstress, and this was only my second try at going "off the pattern," so to speak. I took elements I liked from two patterns and a couple other dresses I had seen and tried to create my own. It mostly worked.

I note, I am also getting better at braiding. I intended to braid her entire head in sort of a zigzag pattern, but after the first two hours, I decided we'd be in better spirits for Easter if I just left it.


Nora's pink painted toenails and new summer sandals. I didn't notice they had a heel until I brought them home (who puts a heel on toddler shoes? I mean, this shoe was available in a size 5, which is barely walking for a lot of kids.) Oh well. She looks VERY tall now.


The highlight of Miles' Easter basket: a $1 toy that launches a helicopter/fan blade-like thingie into the air. We've already lost one thingie on the garage roof; only two to go.

Encouraging note: I didn't include much edible in the kids' baskets: a pair of socks, a book, a seed kit to plant, a small toy, a box of tic-tacs, 4 mini chocolate eggs (jellybean size), one candy necklace, 3 gummi bunnies, and one egg full of jellybeans. To me, this seemed modest at best (which was my aim). I was pleased to see Eleanor exclaim excitedly, "Wow! We have LOTS of candy!"

Now, how do I help my kids continue to be content with what, by US standards, is perhaps a paltry amount of spoils? That's a question for a lot of areas in life, I suppose: how do we maintain an attitude of contentment in a culture of excess? Something I ponder, but haven't reached any light-bulb moments yet. I'll let you know if I do. (And yes, I do realize this has connections to the food issues that have plagued me for most of my life. No easy solutions there yet, either.)

Coy...

...and not so coy!

Guess who seems to have inherited Mommy's smug smile?


The angelic siblings. This is about 20 seconds before Eleanor revolted and, in tears, declared it was HER turn with the helicopter/fanblade thingie and she wasn't going to smile for any more photos. In fairness, it was past lunchtime, and she doesn't do well on an empty stomach.


A big Daddy-hug made everything all better, for a few minutes at least.

Why is it that Scott is so much more photogenic than I am? Or perhaps I should claim it's my own skill with the camera?


Miles and his Daddy. For a very wiggly, can't-sit-still four-year-old, he is still wonderfully cuddly. Sitting "next to" always ends up as sitting "on." Sometimes at the dinner table, he just reaches over and wants to hold hands with me or Scott. And sad to say, his most annoying habit (which I'm trying to learn not to be annoyed by) is his habit of reaching over and fiddling with my ponytail when we are both reading next to each other. I note: this is Miles I'm talking, about, not Scott. Anyway, I am guessing that "touch" is one of his love languages for sure!

Thursday, April 21, 2011

brief anecdote

Eleanor: Mommy, do you have your teeth out?

me: (no idea what she's talking about) Um...what do you mean, honey?

Eleanor: Daddy left his teeth out.

me: (still no idea) Are you sure? I think Daddy has all his teeth in his mouth still.

Eleanor: No. Daddy left his teeth at Mr. Dan and Miss Amie's.

me: (light slowly dawning) Oh! Well, yes, Daddy left his BLUEtooth at Mr. Dan and Miss Amie's. So...um...yes, but that's a different kind of tooth. Never mind.

And another thing I'll miss when it goes away: Eleanor's "Windy da Pooh." Makes me giggle.

Have been frantically busy lately, but hope to have some time to catch up on blogging, low priority that it is...